Today is my first day of having my Carboholics Anonymous meeting. I have brought in some celery and ranch dressing for sharing as a nibble. Everyone's packed their own lunches to bring in... I'm going to go over a few helpful tips = things that have helped me.
1. If it is a root vegetable, it's not on the "Plan".
2. Don't listen to other people tell you you are doing something wrong, or how you should do something another way - instead - take hints and advice to a point that if you think it might work for you, try it, but don't fall in the trap of Nay-Sayers. Nay-Sayers will sabotage (not purposely) every chance they can ....
3. It's ONE day at a time. If you ate some pizza or ice cream, then you should make consequences that are healthy to fix it - and that is, get back on the horse, walk an extra mile, do an extra 30 minutes exercise, and start back with a healthy choice and realize - you can do better next time.
4. DO NOT GIVE YOURSELF TREATS for a GOOD LOSS in the form of FOOD. Buy yourself a new shirt, skirt, piece of jewelry, perfume, something that you wanted... new shoes :) But if you treat yourself with Carbohydrates, you've just given in to the addiction... just like a drug addict.
I've always said - my drug of choice, is Food. I'd rather sit and eat a giant bowl of pasta and fresh hot bread smothered in butter than take any drugs or alcoholic beverage. I guess I can't really say that I'm not an addict, because honestly, regardless of how hard I work on weight loss - this has been a long time battle - and I only fail because of my addiction.
I have lost a total of 42 lbs today. This was confirmed by the doctor visit I had this morning. I am 8 lbs. shy of my intended 90 day goal, but I'm not going to punish myself over it - instead I am bumping up the will power and the "movement"... and I'm gathering the masses to be my support. I will reach that 50 lbs goal - it just might be a week late. AND Late is better than NEVER
Recap: A wonderful meeting, two ladies that attended were stunned at how "small a world" we live in - they used to be neighbors - so I reunited two friendly people in a great little group! We shared recipes, talked honestly about how much weight we have to lose - and I was stunned by the smallest one in the group - I'd have NEVER guessed her weight! She's carrying her weight very well... I am the heaviest by 4 lbs. But I'm going to take care of that - "Miss Competitive" here, not "Miss Supportive!"... No, I will definitely want to shine in the weight loss and set a good example! BUT I never want anyone to feel bad ....so I will always be there to support. As an overweight woman, I know how to verbally express without hurting feelings or stepping on toes, the sensitive issues of weight, diet, etc.
Recap: A wonderful meeting, two ladies that attended were stunned at how "small a world" we live in - they used to be neighbors - so I reunited two friendly people in a great little group! We shared recipes, talked honestly about how much weight we have to lose - and I was stunned by the smallest one in the group - I'd have NEVER guessed her weight! She's carrying her weight very well... I am the heaviest by 4 lbs. But I'm going to take care of that - "Miss Competitive" here, not "Miss Supportive!"... No, I will definitely want to shine in the weight loss and set a good example! BUT I never want anyone to feel bad ....so I will always be there to support. As an overweight woman, I know how to verbally express without hurting feelings or stepping on toes, the sensitive issues of weight, diet, etc.
Congratulations! What an achievement. With this attitude, you will reach your goal. No doubt about that.
ReplyDeleteI am trying.. and thank you! I went shopping yesterday for the first time for clothes that fit - and it felt good to be buying a smaller size!!!! It felt good to be feeling healthier and have the stamina to shop and walk for a whole day - including walking the entire IKEA store on top of it! :) xx
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